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I don't dislike
Lisa and
Todd Vanderpump at all. In fact, personally, I thought that the
Vanderpumps, along-with Adrienne & Dr. ?, managed to make it through the season virtually unscathed. And maybe that is the problem. Even-though I respect them, they are wrong. If they did not compensate
Cedric properly when he left their home, they took advantage of him.
Starcasm.com re-capped Part II of the reunion, and they have a video and some quotes:
"...he called them and asked to meet. When they showed up Cedric asked for something they “weren’t prepared to give him” ...
He also complains that he only got compensated in “flowers and puppies” for the work he did for Ken and Lisa..."-Starcasm http://starcasm.net/archives/84085
What did
Cedric ask-for? If he was only paid in flowers and puppies, aside from what he earned while he was on the payroll at their restaurant, I'd say they owe him at least the going-rate for live-in domestic help for however long he lived with them.
I guess they weren't prepared to give him any cash?
As a comparison, the blog,
I Saw Your Nanny.Com (here), has a pretty regular Saturday feature called,
CL-WTF?, where readers report, and comment on recent
Craigslist postings throughout the country. The reason I use it as a comparison is because many times, people try to dangle "FREE ROOM AND BOARD", as payment for domestic work.
Responses are made directly to
Craigslist, to the would-be slave-drivers who post the advertisements. Comments about
WTF? are also made on the
I Saw Your Nanny blog, comment-space.
I know it seems a little off-topic, since
Cedric was not a nanny, but HUMAN TRAFFICKING is a big problem, all over this world, AND in the USA. The professional Nannys and domestics who keep an eye on the
Craigslist postings, and discuss the wages and working conditions for live-in domestic help, have a lot of light that they shed on this problem.Even-if Cedric was living in the lap-of-luxury, he deserves compensation.
Cedric's main job for
Lisa was not child-care, but he is definitely, "live-in" help.
What
was Cedric's job-title? I know that it was supposed to be a cute running-joke. "Permanent Houseguest", pest,
Cato Katlin. ha ha. Was
Cedric a Care-Taker? A Companion? Assistant? Personal-Trainer? Man-in-Waiting? Butler? Houseman?
Another fact that many people seem to be including as a generous "gift" from
Lisa &
Todd to
Cedric, his immigration costs to
Beverly Hills, probably reveal a guarantee and promise of employment. I don't think that we grant Visas for "permanent house-guests". There are responsibilities that visitors and employers promise when they immigrate.
We have laws in this country to protect citizens,
and visitors. One of these laws is the
Trafficking Victims Protection Act (TVPA) of 2000. I found a refrence to this law on the Wikipedia page devoted to
Indentured Servitude, (which is of course illegal in the USA).
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indentured_servant
"unlike slaves, servants could look forward to a release from bondage. If they survived their period of labor, servants would receive a payment known as "freedom dues" and become free members of society....
Current legal status
Article 4 of the United Nation's Universal Declaration of Human Rights (passed in 1948) declares such servitude as illegal, but only national legislation could rectify that illegality. In America, the Trafficking Victims Protection Act (TVPA) of 2000 extended servitude to cover peonage as well as Involuntary Servitude"-Wikipedia
While we're talking about HUMAN TRAFFICKING, I guess this is a good time to bring another
Real Housewife of Beverly Hills into it.
Camille.
What does
Camille have to do with this? Plenty. Starting with the fact that
Camille was herself, a product in the Human Traffic market. The story of
Camille's employment with
prince jefri (Googled© here) , (I spit when I type his name and under-capitalize out of disrespect), has been widely reported.
Camille may not have complained publicly, but other American women including at least one former
Miss USA, have sued the harem/pimp for being held captive as a, "
sex-slave".
Maybe that's why
Camille doesn't have any unpaid, "help", but she sure has taken a lot of flack for having, "PAID FRIENDS". Even
Andy Cohen on
WWHL was pressured into asking
Camille about having her friends on the payroll.-THAT, has become another running-topic this season of
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.
The
HBO show
Entourage, pretty-much validates the reality of the Hollywood habit of paying your friends to work for you. It may be a little embarrassing or awkward for both parties, but its a lot better than NOT-PAYING your friends to work for you.
And finally, as far as Camille is concerned, being a wife in a "Community Property" state, with no pre-nup, and proud of it, she is looking-forward to being awarded a great deal of the money that was earned by
Kelsey. Why? Because the law recognizes the value and worth of a spouse's contribution, even-if that contribution is mostly the "domestic"-kind.
(
*and yes I have to mention an aside here.
New York Real Housewife Ramona's demented warped statements have gone unchallenged for three seasons about how her mother stayed in an abusive marriage because she didn't have, "her own money". Ramona's mother had plenty of her own money because she was legally entitled to her marital assets-yet Ramona gives this dangerous incorrect advice every season.When you broadcast material about "
Real Housewives", you are responsible to answer to the
Housewives Homemakers Union and I'm calling you out on this again
Bravo.)
Here's a snip from a Q&A interview that Cedric did with
Wet Paint:
"Did you go with them when they moved to Beverly Hills?
No, no. Not at all. They lived in the South of France. I lived in London. So I’d never lived with them before. When they asked me if I wanted to come here, I jumped at the opportunity, because I’d always wanted to come to America. I thought it would be a great opportunity, and I didn’t want to miss it. And plus, I am very fond of them, so I accepted."-Cedric
Did
Cedric really, "blackmail" and/or attempt to extort money from the
Vanderpumps? Or did he simply ask for what he was entitled-to? The story is that he threatened them with selling personal information or something like that to the media. The way that I heard it sounded more like he mentioned that he was aware that he could possibly make some of the money that he needs to live, now that he is looking-for another place/job, by doing media interviews.
If he came-across as threatening, than that would be wrong. But is it extortion to ask for what you deserve and
need? Of course it isn't! And aside from some catty personal opinions about
Lisa's, "ego", I haven't seen ANY, "juicy secrets" about the
Vanderpumps attributed to
Cedric, and he really doesn't need to take that approach.
Lisa and Todd, really should pay the man at least the going-rate for minimum-wage for domestic live-in help, for the time that he lived with them. And from all of the articles that I've read, he did not live with them for 15 years as mis-reported, he lived with them for less than two years.
I get that
Lisa feels bad about what happened, but that she is being very careful to keep her loyalty and prioritys where they should be. I think that
Lisa feels guilty,
AND SHE SHOULD! Personally, I am aghast that
Todd and Lisa are getting nothing but public support for this situation. If
Cedric took this to a lawyer, I don't see how he could lose. Maybe
Lisa & Todd should ask their attorney what their responsibilities are?
Make sure to tell him/ or her, that:
- You asked Cedric to come to the US and assisted with his immigration with whatever that entails
- He was not an independent contractor, since you controlled his time by waking him up etc.
- He was a live-in employee
- He left/was asked to leave/was terminated and asked to be compensated
- This request was treated as a threat
- The public and media were encouraged to humiliate this man for asking for compensation, and Cedric has been denied his rights by intrinsically implied misrepresentation of his rights.
- Although it has nothing to do with it, Cedric is considered a minority in the US, (homosexual), which may afford him some additional protections in considering the termination of their arrangement.
So-let me get this straight. This season of
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, we learned that you will be mocked and interrogated if you are wealthy and you pay your friends a salary, or money, for their time and help, but if you drag them into a foreign country, and then toss them out when you're finished with them, without adequate resources to live, you will have our support and righteous indignation at how ungrateful this, "freeloader" , (meaning="free help"), has been. Did I get that right? 'Cause that's what it looks like to me. Yes that is my idea of sarcasm. And its a rhetorical question so don't bother answering because I've already seen what a lot of you have to say about this and I think it scary.