http://www.tmz.com/2010/06/11/danielle-staub-ill-never-reveal-sex-tape-partner/ |
Also, the fact that her partner is a known, (in the porn-industry), actor/performer, AND the fact that he is now using the video in his filmography of professional works, answers that other sticky question, and the answer is: "YES", this is/was professionally-produced porn, and NOT something that someone, "leaked".
I found the answer on Adult Video News, (here) .
Kevin James(III), not to be confused with The King of Queens, co-star, Kevin James. Where apparently, James (III), has quietly added Raw to his list of credits.
While researching Staub on TMZ.com, I noticed that she had been in the running to win the 2010 TMZZY for "Most Likely to Disappear in 2011" . And, although I leaned heavily towards the mystery-man in the mirror having a hairline that suspiciously looking exactly like Tommy Manzo, (Claudine/Dina's husband), I also like the other guesses in the comments that follow TMZ article linked up top, including the most recent comment which names Joe Giudice as the, "Mystery Man".